Wednesday, February 14, 2007

Happy Valentine's Day
May all your Dreams Come In True







''Here comes the day which is not mine,
As I dont have any valentine.


Things happened in the past which are not fine.
rainy days for me even when the sun shine.


No girl to propose,
No aroma of rose,


No chance for my arms to lift,
No special person to give gift,


No miss is there to miss,
No experience of kiss,


No dinner in the moon light,
No chance to have the day bright.


Even though I dont fall in love
I'll always bow to love.


"Wishing great time to people who are in love
" Wish u a happy valentines day"

"Keep loving As Valentine Day Coming Cheers"
To love and to be loved is to feel the sun from both sides.


Love Me For A Reason,Let Love Be Reason



Love does not consist in gazing at each other

but in looking outward together in the same direction.
Love, the itch, and a cough cannot be hid.


Love is the word used to label the sexual excitement of the young,

the habituation of the middle-aged,

and the mutual dependence of the old


(Definition Changes With Age And Time)









" I love you not because of who you are,

but because of who I am when I am with you. "



"Love isn't everything ,but without it life is nothing "

If it is Yours ....Yes,If it is yours only.......


"love: something you love, something that is loved.."
"Love is some thing...Every want to get.....But ...Few only Get it"


ಫ್ರೆಂಡ್‌ಶಿಪ್ ಪ್ರೀತಿಯಾಗಿ ಬದಲಾಗಿ ಬಿಡಬಹುದು. ಆದರೆ ಪ್ರೀತಿ ಫ್ರೆಂಡ್‌ಶಿಪ್ ಆಗಿ? ನೋ ಛಾನ್ಸ್!



Some time it pains............

Some time Try to win by Loosing ...........




"Love is a silent song ....only heart can listen....."

Let's begin with the premise that relationships are something that must be worked on all the time, not only when they are broken and need to be fixed!


The ABC's of Celebrating Love!

A -Absolutely amaze your partner with adoration. Let them know in very special ways that you care. Exercise extravagant respect and devotion toward your lover. Accept them for who they are. Demonstrate your warm attachment and affection to them. Avoid taking your partner for granted.

B-Believe in your instincts. Be spontaneous. Don't plan. . . just do something that you've wanted to do with your partner for a long time. Let your love occur naturally. Stop and pick a roadside flower and present it to your partner.


C- Cuddle. Lie close and be cozy. Do spoons! Just hold each other. There is a very special healing power in a close, warm embrace. C is also for "considerate."



D-Discover new ways of expressing your love for each other. Hire a skywriter. Put a message up on a billboard. Buy a radio commercial to say I love you. Record a special message on a cassette.


E- Entice your lover to try a new way of making love. Always making love the same way can bring on boredom. Focus on pleasure. Enjoy each other to the fullest. Read, Red Hot LoveNotes for Lovers.


F Flirt for fun and frivolity. Be creative in your flirting. Pretend you are together for the first time or that you are trying to pick up your lover.


G- Gaze into each other's eyes with a steady intention to say, "I love you" without words. Smile. Notice the eye color. Say something nice about them. Be generous with your love.


H-Have a private party for just the two of you. Candles, music, the works. Talk. Listen. Express your love for one another.


I -Indulge each other's desires. Write your secret desires on pieces of paper and trade. You may be surprised.


J-Joke and have fun together. Lighten up. Be joyous. Release your sense of humor. Have fun with love.


K-Kissy. . . kissy. . . kissy! Quick pecks on the cheek don't work. Give your partner an unexpected, looooooong, juicy kiss. Be keen on kissing!



L-Love with all your heart and soul. Always remember to speak, "I love you" at least once each day. Express love in new and exciting ways. Remember to love yourself and do nice things for you too.



M-Massage away the day's tension and stress. Begin with the feet and work up. Surprise your lover with your magic fingers or tantalizing tongue. Buy some special massage oil; something that smells good.


N-Nurture your need for nibbling. Nibble each other's earlobes or other parts of the body that feels good. Practice a soft, light, romantic nibble with your lover. Nibbling feels good.


O-Offer breakfast in bed or some other surprise your lover might like. Be creative. Plan. Make it very special.





P-Pretend you are long-lost, passionate lovers. Use your imagination. Think! What could you do that you haven't done for a long time? Do that.



Q-Quote your lover a love poem or a special passage from a book or greeting card that expresses exactly how you feel.



R-Remember the little things. Respect your partner by paying attention. Be aware when your partner's likes and dislikes. Notice what makes them happy and deliver more of that.



S-Slow dance by candlelight or in the backyard in the moonlight. Get back to romance. Be sensitive to the romantic needs of your lover. Romantically impaired? Read, 1001 Ways to Be Romantic.



T-Try a little tenderness. Be gentle. Practice the "soft touch." Go slow. Be intentional.


U-Uncover your deepest feelings. Speak them or write them to your lover. Communicate them unwaveringly. Let your emotions express themselves with sensitivity, understanding and love.

V-Vow your eternal love for each other. Renew your vows. Make some new ones. Look up the word "vow" in the dictionary. Live by your solemn promises.


W-Watch a sunrise or sunset together. Bring a picnic basket with snacks and your favorite beverage. Let the warmth you feel for your partner be felt.


X X-plore your romantic dreams. Daydream about this one. Think. X-cellerate. Don't wait. Do something X-citing together; something you said you would do in the past, but you both have been putting off or making X-cuses about.



Y -Yearn for each other's touch. Don't hold back. A hug-a-day pays dividends beyond your wildest imaginings. AND. . . it feels good to be touched by the one you love.



Z- Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz in each other's arms. Zero in on being close. Touching feels good. Enhance your enjoyment by listening to your partner's breathing cycle and to their heartbeat. Inhale and exhale together. Become as one.



Chinese symbol for Love
I offer the symbol for love in 4 different Chinese calligraphic styles.


You may use dowoload it and use it as a whole or just crop the style you like


Poems for The Day.....

Valentine's for Lovers and for Friends

Valentine's for lovers and for friends.
All my love goes out to you this day!
Love is something different from desire:
Even, silent, peaceful as the sky.
Nor is love interested in means or ends.
There are no selfish needs that it must weigh.
Instead, love's plenitude itself inspires,
Needing neither cause nor reason why.
Each day my thoughts enchanted with you lie
.


Value Me for What I Give You

Value me for what I give you;
All the rest hold in your heart.
Life does not fulfill our wishes;
Even lifelong lovers part.
Now let yourself be lulled by kisses,
Take from the moment all that's due;
Inter within what your heart misses,
Nor let what's false destroy what's true.
Enjoying love requires art.



Be my Valentine: What does that mean?
Each of us must walk through life alone,
More deeply desolate than we have known,
Yearning for a truth we've never seen.
Valentines are from beyond that dream,
Are like a sunrise on a world of stone.
Little on this journey can we own
Except as miracles might intervene.
No way but through loving might we give
The freedom of our being to another.
In such a sacrifice we hope to live
No longer bound by dreams of flesh and bone,
Even as we bind our lives together
.



Although Our Love Is Over, It Remains

Although our love is over, it remains
An unfrequented garden in my heart,
Its beauty quite inseparable from pain,
A wilderness where once was willful art.
I hope a little piece of you is still
Reserved for me, a place you may not go,
But where my room, untenanted, can fill
A moment with my music, sweet and slow.

There are no wishes like a former lover's
That from the dark, repentant night must shine.
And so though we have both moved on to others,
I send you from afar this Valentine.
....


A Valentine Is Nothing Like
A Valentine is nothing like
A chocolate or a rose.
For in a week these shall be gone,
But Valentines remain.
If love were always sweet to tongue
Or fragrant to the nose,
Each day would be like Valentine's,
And we would go insane.

A Valentine just hangs around
Waiting to be kissed
Long after special days have passed
And every days are here.

So one is wise to choose one well
And chocolates to resist.
For in the midst of mania
It's nice to have one near.



Every February, across the country, candy, flowers, and gifts are exchanged between loved ones, all in the name of St. Valentine. But who is this mysterious saint and why do we celebrate this holiday? The history of Valentine's Day -- and its patron saint -- is shrouded in mystery. But we do know that February has long been a month of romance. St. Valentine's Day, as we know it today, contains vestiges of both Christian and ancient Roman tradition. So, who was Saint Valentine and how did he become associated with this ancient rite? Today, the Catholic Church recognizes at least three different saints named Valentine or Valentinus, all of whom were martyred.

One legend contends that Valentine was a priest who served during the third century in Rome. When Emperor Claudius II decided that single men made better soldiers than those with wives and families, he outlawed marriage for young men -- his crop of potential soldiers. Valentine, realizing the injustice of the decree, defied Claudius and continued to perform marriages for young lovers in secret. When Valentine's actions were discovered, Claudius ordered that he be put to death.

O
ther stories suggest that Valentine may have been killed for attempting to help Christians escape harsh Roman prisons where they were often beaten and tortured.

According to one legend, Valentine actually sent the first 'valentine' greeting himself. While in prison, it is believed that Valentine fell in love with a young girl -- who may have been his jailor's daughter -- who visited him during his confinement. Before his death, it is alleged that he wrote her a letter, which he signed 'From your Valentine,' an expression that is still in use today. Although the truth behind the Valentine legends is murky, the stories certainly emphasize his appeal as a sympathetic, heroic, and, most importantly, romantic figure. It's no surprise that by the Middle Ages, Valentine was one of the most popular saints in England and France.



While some believe that Valentine's Day is celebrated in the middle of February to commemorate the anniversary of Valentine's death or burial -- which probably occurred around 270 A.D

-- others claim that the Christian church may have decided to celebrate Valentine's feast day in the middle of February in an effort to 'christianize' celebrations of the pagan Lupercalia festival. In ancient Rome, February was the official beginning of spring and was considered a time for purification. Houses were ritually cleansed by sweeping them out and then sprinkling salt and a type of wheat called spelt throughout their interiors. Lupercalia, which began at the ides of February, February 15, was a fertility festival dedicated to Faunus, the Roman god of agriculture, as well as to the Roman founders Romulus and Remus.

To begin the festival, members of the Luperci, an order of Roman priests, would gather at the sacred cave where the infants Romulus and Remus, the founders of Rome, were believed to have been cared for by a she-wolf or lupa. The priests would then sacrifice a goat, for fertility, and a dog, for purification.

The boys then sliced the goat's hide into strips, dipped them in the sacrificial blood and took to the streets, gently slapping both women and fields of crops with the goathide strips. Far from being fearful, Roman women welcomed being touched with the hides because it was believed the strips would make them more fertile in the coming year. Later in the day, according to legend, all the young women in the city would place their names in a big urn. The city's bachelors would then each choose a name out of the urn and become paired for the year with his chosen woman. These matches often ended in marriage. Pope Gelasius declared February 14 St. Valentine's Day around 498 A.D. The Roman 'lottery' system for romantic pairing was deemed un-Christian and outlawed. Later, during the Middle Ages, it was commonly believed in France and England that February 14 was the beginning of birds' mating season, which added to the idea that the middle of February -- Valentine's Day -- should be a day for romance. The oldest known valentine still in existence today was a poem written by Charles, Duke of Orleans to his wife while he was imprisoned in the Tower of London following his capture at the Battle of Agincourt. The greeting, which was written in 1415, is part of the manuscript collection of the British Library in London, England. Several years later, it is believed that King Henry V hired a writer named John Lydgate to compose a valentine note to Catherine of Valois.

In Great Britain, Valentine's Day began to be popularly celebrated around the seventeenth century. By the middle of the eighteenth century, it was common for friends and lovers in all social classes to exchange small tokens of affection or handwritten notes. By the end of the century, printed cards began to replace written letters due to improvements in printing technology. Ready-made cards were an easy way for people to express their emotions in a time when direct expression of one's feelings was discouraged. Cheaper postage rates also contributed to an increase in the popularity of sending Valentine's Day greetings. Americans probably began exchanging hand-made valentines in the early 1700s. In the 1840s, Esther A. Howland began to sell the first mass-produced valentines in America.

According to the Greeting Card Association, an estimated one billion valentine cards are sent each year, making Valentine's Day the second largest card-sending holiday of the year. (An estimated 2.6 billion cards are sent for Christmas.)

Approximately 85 percent of all valentines are purchased by women. In addition to the United States, Valentine's Day is celebrated in Canada, Mexico, the United Kingdom, France, and Australia.
Valentine greetings were popular as far back as the Middle Ages (written Valentine's didn't begin to appear until after 1400), and the oldest known Valentine card is on display at the British Museum. The first commercial Valentine's Day greeting cards produced in the U.S. were created in the 1840s by Esther A. Howland. Howland, known as the Mother of the Valentine, made elaborate creations with real lace, ribbons and colorful pictures known as "scrap".

Special thanks to American Greetings.


What great peoples say About Love

There is a Law that man should love his neighbor as himself. In a few years it should be as natural to mankind as breathing or the upright gait; but if he does not learn it he must perish.
-- Alfred Adler

If there is anything better than to be loved it is loving.
-- Anon.

Love is a fan club with only two fans.
-- Anon
.

Love is the only game that is not called on account of darkness.
-- Anon.

Among those whom I like, I can find no common denominator, but among those whom I love, I can: all of them make me laugh.
-- W.H. Auden


It is impossible to love and be wise.
-- Francis Bacon

Love is the delightful interval between meeting a beautiful girl and discovering that she looks like a haddock.
-- John Barrymore


I never knew how to worship until I knew how to love.
-- Henry Ward Beecher


A man is only as good as what he loves.
-- Saul Bellow

From the moment it is touched, the heart cannot dry up.
-- Louis Bourdaloue


How do I love thee? Let me count the ways.
I love thee to the depth and breadth and height
My soul can reach, when feeling out of sight
For the ends of Being and ideal Grace.
I love thee to the level of everyday's
Most quiet need, by sun and candle-light.
I love thee freely, as men strive for Right;
I love thee purely, as they turn from Praise.
I love thee with the passion put to use
In my old griefs, and with my childhood's faith.
I love thee with a love I seemed to lose
With my lost saints, -I love thee with the breath,
Smiles, tears, of all my life! - and, if God choose,
I shall but love thee better after death.
-- Elizabeth Barrett Browning


But to see her was to love her,
Love but her, and love forever.
-- Robert Burns


To live is to love; all reason is against it; instinct is for it.
-- Samuel Butler


Respect is love in plain clothes.
-- Frankie Byrne

Like the measles, love is most dangerous when it comes late in life.
-- Lord Byron


Love is not altogether a delerium, yet it has many points in common therewith.
-- Thomas Carlyle

Love lasteth long as the money endureth.
-- William Caxton


Love is blynde.
-- Geoffrey Chaucer


She lovede Right fro the firste sighte.
-- Geoffrey Chaucer

The way to love anything is to realize that it might be lost.
-- Gilbert K. Chesterton



When poverty comes in at doors, love leaps out at windows.
-- John Clarke


If you cannot inspire a woman with love of you, fill her above the brim with love of herself; all that runs over will be yours.
-- Charles Caleb Colton


lovers alone wear sunlight
-- e.e. cummings

Love is a sickness full of woes,
All remedies refusing;
A plant that with most cutting grows,
Most barren with best using.
-- Samuel Daniel


The magic of first love is our ignorance that it can ever end.
-- Benjamin Disraeli

Love built on beauty, soon as beauty, dies.
-- John Donne


I am two fools, I know, for loving and saying so.
-- John Donne

If thou be'st born to strange sights,
Things invisible to see,
Ride ten thousand days and nights
Till Age snow white hairs on thee
;

Thou, when thou return'st wilt tell me
All strange wonders that befell thee,
And swear
No where
Lives a woman true and fair.


-- John Donne

All mankind loves a lover.
-- Ralph Waldo Emerson


Next to coming to a good understanding with a new mistress, I love a quarrel with an old one.
-- Sir George Etherege

He that falls in love with himself will have no rivals.
-- Benjamin Franklin


You've got to love what's loveable and hate what's hateable. It takes brains to see the difference.
-- Robert Frost




It is an extra dividend when you like the girl you've fallen in love with.
-- Clark Gable

A man in love is not complete until he is married. Then he is finished.
-- Zsa Zsa Gabor

A coward is incapable of exhibiting love; it is the prerogative of the brave.
-- Mahatma Gandhi



We are shaped and fashioned by what we love.
-- Johann Wolfgang von Goethe


The porcupine, whom one must handle gloved,
May be respected, but is never loved.
-- Arthur Guiterman


When one loves somebody everything is clear -- where to go, what to do -- it all takes care of itself and one doesn't have to ask anybody about anything.
-- Maxim Gorky

Every theory of love, from Plato down, teaches that each individual loves in the other sex what he lacks in himself.
-- G. Stanley Hall


Love and a cough cannot be hid.
-- George Herbert


People who throw kisses are hopelessly lazy.
-- Bob Hope

The supreme happiness of life is the conviction that we are loved.
-- Victor Hugo

One is never too old to yearn.
-- Italian Proverb


Love's like the measles, all the worse when it comes late.
-- Douglas Jerrold


There is only one sort of love, but there are a thousand copies.
-- François de La Rochefoucauld


Love is an egoism of two.
-- Antoine de La Salle


Love is a kind of military service.
-- Latin Proverb

Many a man in love with a dimple makes a mistake of marrying the whole girl.
-- Stephen Leacock

To love is to place our happiness in the happiness of another.
-- Gottfried Wilhelm von Leibnitz


Love is whatever you can still betray. Betrayal can only happen if you love.
-- John Le Carre


Love gives itself; it is not bought.
-- Henry Wadsworth Longfellow

I could not love thee, dear, so much,
Loved I not honor more.
-- Richard Lovelace

There is no living with thee, nor without thee.
-- Martial


You can always get someone to love you, even if you have to do it yourself.
-- Tom Masson


No love, no friendship can cross the path of our destiny without leaving some mark on it forever.
-- Francois Mauriac

The head never rules the heart but just becomes its partner in crime.
-- Michael McLaughlin

Love is the delusion that one woman differs from another.
-- H. L. Mencken


Love is the triumph of imagination over intelligence.
-- H. L. Mencken


To be in love is merely to be in a perpetual state of anesthesia--to mistake an ordinary young man for a Greek god or an ordinary young woman for a goddess.
-- H. L. Mencken


'Tis not love's going hurts my days,
But that it went in little ways.
-- Edna St. Vincent Millay


The only thing we never get enough of is love; and the only thing we never give enough of is love.
-- Henry Miller


The heart that has truly loved never forgets
But as truly loves on to the close.
-- Thomas Moore


If we all discovered that we only had five minutes left to say all that we wanted to say, every telephone booth would be occupied by people calling other people to tell them that they loved them.
-- Christopher Morley


The only abnormality is the incapacity to love.
-- Anais Nin

I love a hand that meets my own with a grasp that causes some sensation.
-- Samuel Osgood

If you want to be loved, be lovable.
-- Ovid

Love and dignity cannot share the same abode.
-- Ovid

The heart has its reasons which the mind cannot comprehend.
-- Blaise Pascal

There can be no piece of mind in love, since the advantage one has secured is never anything but a fresh starting-point for future desires.
-- Marcel Proust


The entire sum of existence is the magic of being needed by just one person.
-- Vi Putnam


It has been wisely said that we cannot really love anybody at whom we never laugh.
-- Agnes Repplier


Love consists in this, that two solitudes protect and touch and greet each other.
-- Ranier Maria Rilke


To know her was to love her.
-- Samuel Rogers

Little privations are easily endured when the heart is better treated than the body.
-- Jean-Jacques Rousseau


To attract men I wear a perfume called "new car interior."
-- Rita Rudner




Love makes of the wisest man a fool, and of the most foolish woman, a sage.
-- Moritz J. Saphir

The course of true love never did run smooth.
-- William Shakespeare, A Midsummer Night's Dream


First love is only a little foolishness and a lot of curiosity: no really self-respecting woman would take advantage of it.
-- George Bernard Shaw

Romance without finance is no good.
-- Willie 'The Lion' Smith


I hold it true, whate'er befall;
I feel it, when I sorrow most;
'Tis better to have loved and lost
Than never to have loved at all.
-- Alfred, Lord Tennyson


A lady of forty-seven who had been married twenty-seven years and has six children knows what love really is and once described it for me like this: 'Love is what you've been through with somebody.'
-- James Thurber


The first duty of love is to listen.
-- Paul Tillich



Love is a canvas furnished by Nature and embroidered by imagination.
-- Voltaire


Let your love be stronger than your hate or anger. Learn the wisdom of compromise, for it is better to bend a little than to break.
-- H.G. Wells


Love conquers all things except poverty and a toothache.
-- Mae West

What we can do for another is the test of powers; what we can suffer is the test of love.
-- Brooke Foss Westcott

One should always be in love. This is the reason why one should never marry.
-- Oscar Wilde


Women love men for their defects; if men have enough of them, women will forgive them anything, even their gigantic intellects.
-- Oscar Wilde
Yet each man kills the thing he loves...
-- Oscar Wilde

Women are made to be loved, not understood.
-- Oscar Wilde

There is a land of the living and a land of the dead and the bridge is love, the only survival, the only meaning.
-- Thornton Wilder


Lovers eminent in love
Ever diversities combine;
The vocal chords of the cushat-dove,
The snake's articulated spine.

Such elective elements
Educate the eye and lip
With one's refreshing innocence,
The other's claim to scholarship.


The serpent's knowledge of the world
Learn, and the dove's more naïve charm;
Whether your ringlets should be curled,
And why he likes his claret warm.
-- Elinor Wylie



Wine comes in at the mouth
And love comes in at the eye;
That's all we shall know for truth
Before we grow old and die.
-- William Butler Yeats

In how many lives does Love really play a dominant part? The average taxpayer is no more capable of a 'grand passion' than of a grand opera.
-- Israel Zangwill




6 rules to be HAPPY:


Free your heart from hatred;


Free your mind from worries;


Live simply;


Expect less;


Give more & Always have ME as UR FRIEND

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